I use to see them more often, but I still sometimes see the bumper stickers that say, “Families are Forever”. Even though I don’t see as many bumper stickers spending all eternity with your family remains one of Mormonism’s more attractive teachings.
But what I have found is that a lot of Mormons don’t see the connection between having an eternal family and becoming a god. But that is the connection Mormonism makes. “Eternal life, or exaltation, is to inherit a place in the highest degree of the celestial kingdom, where we will live in God’s presence and continue as families (see D&C 131:1-4)” True to the Faith, p, 52. Note how the quote includes a reference to D&C 131. That’s the same section that links exaltation with godhood. “they shall pass by the angels, and the gods, to their exaltation. . .Then shall they be gods.” (v. 19-20) It’s obvious that official Mormonism links having an eternal family with being a god. “Exaltation consists in the continuation of the family unit in eternity.” (Life and Teachings of Jesus & His Apostles, p. 130.
Many Mormons, in the course of a discussion, have mentioned to me how they are looking forward to having an eternal family. I then ask them if they are then also looking forward to becoming a god. That is something almost every single one has quickly denied. After I show them the link Mormonism makes between the two, they often don’t know what to say.
But what many Christians don’t realize is that the subject of eternal families offers us a wonderful window through which we can witness Christ to our Mormon friends. According to the Bible, one result of faith – of trusting that Jesus has done everything for us – is becoming a child of God – becoming a member of God’s eternal family. That, my friends, is a lot more glorious, a lot more attractive, than having my own eternal family. There is one family that is forever – God’s family. And you don’t have to get married in the temple to become part of it. It’s God’s gift to us. “The wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.” (Romans 6:23)